Well, here we are, approximately 45 days out from the wedding (depending on when you read this!), and I’d like to offer a bit of perspective I’ve developed over the last few weeks:
There are certain things guests will NOT give a SHIT about,
so LET. IT. GO.
You guys know that I am a huge perfectionist—a total Type A personality to the max. But over the past 22 months, I have really learned—and indeed embraced!—the ability to let some things go. I want everything to be perfect all the time—not necessarily life (I mean, come on, we all know that life isn’t perfect)—but the little details, like things being printed exactly super straight, tissue packets that are easy to open, etc. Over the past few weeks though, as we get closer and closer to the wedding, I’ve developed a bit of a mantra: let. it. go.
Tiny, insignificant minorly-screwed-up details that I notice, and that you as a bride notice, are likely not going to be noticed by your Average Joe Wedding Guest. And if they are noticed by Average Joe, he likely DOESN’T CARE and won’t hold it against you. And if he does care, Average Joe is an average asshole.
I saw this post yesterday from Miss Husky on the ‘Bee and knew I needed to blog about this. My message is this: RELAX. Her post is a perfect example of something that would TOTALLY bother me, too, but at some point, you just have to let it go. No one—I repeat, NO ONE—will care if your RSVP envelopes are printed upside down…or if your invitation vendor screwed up some of your addresses so you fixed them yourself…and if they do care about that, your guests are jerks. So save yourself some sanity and let the little things go. Laugh about the tiny mistakes—it’s part of the process, and the process is supposed to be FUN.
Did you develop an “Eff It” perspective as you got closer to the wedding?